Sex before marriage

I just finished watching a video clip at GOOD TV, entitled '婚前可以性行为吗?' . I have a great urge to blog it out here and this is the very first time I wrote a post about sex. Well, as a Christian, we have to state our stand clearly..SEX IS BARRED BEFORE MARRIAGE!

Sex is the greatest present given by God to a married couple. They enjoy the moment they are intimate, care each other and gave commitment to each other. Having sex before marriage, just like you know what birthday present you are going to have from your partner before birthday..Any more surprise on birthday day? No more...So the same on marriage...No more intimacy, no more commitment after marriage, but left only hatred, guilty and sin....

I was quite surprised and stunned that some of the gals don't care to have sex with the guy who are just in the relationship...They think this is normal and IN....How precious the gal having the virginity...It should be given to the one that we are married with...Enjoy it only after the marriage...Please don't be cheated and be the slave of sex...

I don't think if a partner is loving you and respecting you will request for something that is hurtful and irresponsible...Straight away kick him off if he wanna do that....Break before it is too late....Intimacy among a couple before marriage is good, but just limit it to touching the hand, shoulder or some light hug....Never go to a dark and small space that only two of you in contact without any other besides, it is really playing the blazing fire....Go to public area rather then inside the car....

Frankly speaking, the temptation of sexuality while in a relationship is huge....but, always think of God....and remind myself, never do something that is not honoring GOD and He doesn't like it...Then, any temptation or mind will be gone all in a while...Thanks God....I told my mind freshly while we just started relationship in the earlier stage...Thanks God, he has the same mind with me....=)

In a nutshell,
~Love yourself, then the love will come itself~

Homosexual relationship

Why the man no more loves the lady? why the lady no more loves the man? Homosexual relationship is quite a hot topic nowadays, and seems like it is more and more acceptable nowadays...Do you agree with this kind of relationship?

God created this world and created our ancestors, Adam and Eve...They are in loved and having a relationship that blessed by God...But, homo sapiens changed the law of natural...Male with male and female with female are acceptable, and why not?!

Actually, they should be blessed and loved too, because they couldn't have the normal relationship like other people...they get the love from the same gender, but how come two people with everything is same will attract each other? Even playing magnet we also know that, South will attract with North but combat the South...but why the human, the most intelligent one, did all of these sins?

I'm not despise it, I'm just wondering......

Treasure him

I was in a relationship with him now, the guy that I was regretted not to start at first while I was still young in 7 years ago...God brought him into my life....And....I cherish him as my partner...

Sometime, while I am alone, I will think of him...think of our last conversation on last night, think of the moment we had together, even thought it is short and limited...I still felt miracle that we are in a relationship now...the one, that I never brave to say it out before....

What did we chat every night? sure, first is asking regards How are you today! LOL....Even it is usual and lame, but it's opened our conversation that last for two hours then....Thanks God, for every night, You are the topic among us and we prayed together before we went to sleep....Sure, sometime, we met the bottleneck, what to talk tonight? ha......then we just laugh, laugh and laugh....he always laugh....LOL.....

Now, I can chat and work at the same time....well well...it's pretty fast and pretty alert for just like he is beside me and accompany me with the work...but, I feel like irrespectful to him as he is utterly concentrate in the conversation.......well, guy, your work is done after you are home, but mine is still ongoing even though I was home....ya, he is understand with this....

I called him Uncle Yong and he called me Auntie Qin... -.-!! ...we are old enough huh?! Sometime, we even talk about marriage....Age at this gap, sure will touch about future and marriage...It is so LOL! we even talk about babies..haha.....make me wanna to get married so soon! No no...hold on first.....

Sometime, we talk about our carrier..he is so loving with his work for the moment and planned to back a year after... he always gave me support to be positive thinking in my carrier and don't push myself so hard....tried the best is the key to have fruitful life....work is never end!

We are still on the way to know each other more....And....agree to say that, lady and gentleman are totally different....

And.....
Thanks God...
We are in a relationship now!...=)

Deny

Deny is hurtful, it can destroy people, eating people slowly and without warning...Deny from people besides, especially the one you most cared about, the one you loved most, is the most hurtful...

For the moment, he has his all planning, and wish for just simply a support from me...As his partner sure is just simply support him for his wills and wish...At the same time, we also prayed for his carrier and future to be blessed by God...All in GOD's planning is the most wonderful one! Agree? AGREE!!

He plans to come back here, but after a year...At first, when I heard about his decision, I also shocked and sure, i kept silent...cos this is his carrier...he has his own right to decide...Well....how great is our God...He gave us a chance to discuss about this open-heartedly....I told him frankly about my worries and thinking too.....Yea...another year of waiting is indeed torturing...I don;t know how far could we run...I wonder about our future in a year...this is all make me doubt...Will the feeling fate with the flying of time?

We keep this in our prayer...cos this is only could be ongoing only with God's blessing....Only HIM is able to make everything impossible to be possible...

'As the body without spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead'
James3:24

~Be Still~

Wonder again

I wonder, why people don't tell me my mistakes directly after I did something wrong? I prefer you tell me straight forward rather then let me keep on guessing here and there...It is indeed tiring..ok....

And, please don't say, I am not mad, I am not angry with the case just now, I am alright...but, actually you are mad, you are angry, you are not alright...Haiz...I always made people angry but I still numb...
Alright...I am sorry for what I have done..

I hate meeting

Before I report myself at my school, my mom told me that this school is famous with meeting...ok, I just thought that, every school are same....Alright, nightmare is started...

I hate meeting, especially those long and messy meeting....What is the purpose of a meeting? Meeting is as to make a final conclusion rite....Meeting without any conclusion is a rubbish...Well, this is pretty possible in my school.....

Please la, don't talk rubbish in the meeting...we are tired after one whole day teaching, and still, we need to listen to their long nonsense...

Please make the meeting short and neat and straight to the points....not slow and steady...This is called smart!